>>2422I like the luther analogy. Let's stop buying the indulgences, and start calling out the true nature of socio-economic salvation. But what does that entail in practice?
>If UMC strivers stopped the striving, they'd end up in the abyss of low-F people and worse yet, their children (if they're lucky to have any) will end up there as well.I don't believe this, especially not this strong version. It's not my experience at least. This is what's interesting about OP: the claim that the UMC striver catastrophic social downside risk thesis is not actually true. I've gotten more out of optimizing for intellectual adventure, wisdom, character, etc than I see people getting out of optimizing for UMC career and school stuff. Maybe my way is higher variance, or actually harder than I realize, but even without any particular talent for it, you hardly end up in a social abyss by default. You know you can just put some pants on, go to a nice church, and be friendly, right? I've met great very high quality friends by such method. As for children, the striveoids are the ones not having them.
So what's the real thing? This guy
>>2424 is right to not focus on the genetics. It's liberating to be able to say "wait a minute, I'm white" and walk away from the fake striver stuff, but you actually do want to strive to develop the real thing.
Every people has its own ideas of true excellence appropriate to its place in the world, but here's my list:
* Risk Tolerance, Openness to Adventure. You will go farther and appear better in life by doing more exploring and risk taking than worrying about keeping up. "Keeping up" (downside risk) is a mental prison; ruin is fake.
* Liberal Education. You should be widely knowledgable in technical, philosophical, historical, etc matters, especially in a way that liberates your perspective from the narrowness of the institutions and superstitions of your own time and place and gives you superior perception of reality.
* Entrepreneurial Creativity. You should be able to conceive of valuable projects, get them done, and sell your work to others inside or outside of any institutional supports.
* Health and Athleticism. You should be strong, fit, metabolically and hormonally healthy. Good eating and lifestyle habits and self discipline go an unfairly long way here. Don't be fat or weak. Having skillfull motions and an air of physical power that comes from dance, combat sports, and other sports is socially powerful, too.
* Social grace. You should be able to talk to anyone, have great manners, become friends with who you want to, and resolve conflicts politely and gracefully.
* Trustworthy Character. You should be the sort of person whose word is just the truth, who can be trusted to do the right thing, to independently fix problems, to keep confidence, show up on time, work hard, etc.
* Taste in quality. Think clothing, material objects, grooming, decor, neighborhoods, cities. You should be able to distinguish actual quality and value from mere fashion and price.
* Efficiency. You should be able to accomplish what you need to on far less than the average slob consumer. I put this in explicitly to remind you that wealth consists not on having stuff, but in lacking wants.
The UMC bosses don't want you to know this but all of these can be trained for free and none of them are gated by institutions. If you made very little money but optimized on all of these, you would be in a very strong social position. The only one even remotely money-gated is the expression of taste in places to live and possibly clothing, and a good portion of that is just an empty tournament of the type OP describes. Even the best cities are quite financially sustainable if you are careful. You can do better than you think on less if you have the taste to compromise on the right things.
The point here isn't even that you shouldn't have or want money, but that most people waste enormous amounts of money chasing what are actually just the above by expensive and ineffectual means.