anon_semy said in #3822 2w ago:
Diet: I am an American, without what I would consider a coherent culinary tradition. I have been eating something like a meat + roots, milk + fruit diet, but this lacks the richness that will draw in a crowd of family members on a holiday. Perhaps I need a French cookbook to draw seasoning inspiration from. I am not such a powerful patriarch that I can institute a spartan diet on Thanksgiving!
Movement: sitting on the floor, sleeping on the floor, walking everywhere feasible. Dancing at parties, adventuring with friends, wrestling at barbecues. A yoga/gymnastics/calisthenics practice.
Music: I don't listen to much music, but all the lyrics I hear are either a distraction from the good life or are outright evil. Aside from hymns, is there any virtuous music out there? Or is the best I can do on this front to listen to and play purely instrumental pieces?
Visual art: a focus on bodybuilding, fashion, interior decorating, and gardening strikes me as much more useful than spending one's time taking photos or painting. I'd rather have a nice aloe plant in my house than one of Van Gogh's cypresses.
Literature: reading fiction can be overdone; there is a failure mode for young avid readers in which their social training data comes mostly from books rather than real life. And The Odyssey is great, but Undaunted Courage (on the Lewis and Clark expedition) was real. And I'm not sure the ROI on reading hundreds of pages of Homer is so good compared to memorizing the sixteen lines of Invictus. I lean towards family read-alouds and skits as the most useful way to engage with fiction, far better than simple consumption.
Vacations: surely one must visit their family and friends, rather than go to Disney World, but what do you do together? Normies aren't always up for barn raisings and scaling Mt Whitney. This is a problem for which I have very little answer, as the less ideologically aligned your relations, the harder it is to find mutually agreeable activities for an extended time.
referenced by: >>3827 >>3841
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