in thread "The plan for anonymous mutual matching dms": My problem with this proposal is that at Sofiechan's current scale, I'd be tempted to just follow everyone in order to find out whether they followed me, and in order not to miss a potentially valuable private interaction. Creating this Tinder-like variabl... 5mo ago (collapse hidden) log in to judge received 5.8 5.8 My problem with this (view hidden) log in to judge received 5.8 5.8 I see the problem. I think your concepts of "follow", "dm request", and "match" are together incoherent so one or more needs to be adjusted. My suggestion would be to get rid of the concept of the 'match' entirely. Once you have dm requests as in >>2685, y... 5mo ago (collapse hidden) log in to judge received 5.8 5.8 I see the problem. I (view hidden) log in to judge received 5.8 5.8 Interestingly Twitter doesn't have a hardcoded concept of matches but "mutual followers" are an important cultural construct in certain communities - e.g. people will invite their "mutuals" to hang out at a real life bar, and more generally consider themse... 5mo ago (collapse hidden) log in to judge received 5.8 5.8 Interestingly Twitte (view hidden) log in to judge received 5.8 5.8