in thread "The plan for anonymous mutual matching dms": The way I see, there are only two coherent possibilities. Either you are really matching with:... 3mo ago (collapse hidden) retry 9 9 The way I see, there (view hidden) retry 9 9 Another factor to weigh is what I'll call "user legibility."... 3mo ago (collapse hidden) retry 7 7 Another factor to we (view hidden) retry 7 7