>>3065I would be very happy to make more friends and connections. Maybe I can see if it's possible to make a big tent political group.
It is not about whatever strange tribe and not fitting in. It is that groups themselves are usually dogmatic. I wouldn't mind staying in a society, but the society I grew up in I think is gone. I wonder if I can ever settle down when nowhere feels right, but only if you settle down do your ideas make an impact on those around you.
I suppose like family this mobility between societies and worlds is not actually that high. Loneliness is societal friction of this in-between process. At some point people have to make do with what's around them, but it's much later in life than it should be, and it's more tolerance and familiarity than actual connection.
Perhaps those with similar ideas can be found through internet posting, but they risk getting perverted to their own ends. Ideas of universal kindness become open borders and disorder; love for your group becomes your group above all.
Despite open-mindedness, nobody truly can accept everything. Neither can I. Humans chat, figure out where they connect or don't, and then disappear to their own ends. Nikola Tesla wanted free electricity; business titans hated the idea. What one thinks is beautiful makes no sense to another person.